Not every hookup turns into a regular thing – and that’s the whole point of casual dating. But when you’re ready to tap out, the real flex is saying so with clarity, not vanishing into the digital mist. Whether it was a one-time thing or a casual thing-that-never-quite-was, here are 10 ready-to-send texts or DMs that close the loop with style. No over-explaining, no mixed signals, no passive-aggressive fades. Give these a try.
When they were fine, but you’re just not feeling it – and that’s valid:
When the vibe was off and you’d rather not repeat it:
You hooked up once and they won’t stop texting:
It dragged on longer than it should’ve. Time to cut it off clean:
If they disrespected your boundaries, this is your cue to shut it down with confidence:
Ending something casually doesn’t mean ending it carelessly. Whether it’s a one-liner or a firm boundary, a little honesty can go a long way in keeping things clean, kind, and emotionally grown-up. You don’t need to justify your “no” – you just need to send it.
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